Need comfort please. I've left my spouse and now I hurt so bad

[FriendsCallMeChris]

I can't really say much on this because I've never been married and I been alone all my life. all I can say is that I think after 30+ years you  know your  reasons for what your doing and have thought it out quite well. You also mentioned he has a temper so make sure you make all the precautions you can.

Thanks Stephanie,
You would be amazed at how hard it is to hide your new address.  In general, the post office sends confirmations to the old address to verify the new one.  The clerk tried to help me figure out how not to do this, but I have little faith that they will follow through.  Though, maybe it won't be an issue. I found out my temporary address and didn't do anything.  (But then, he hasn't had to give up any money or toys yet )

[FriendsCallMeChris]

I'm glad to hear things are going better Chris. Congrats. Hugs
Mariah

Thanks Mariah!  I really never thought things would be so good so fast.  I'm actually enjoying my life now (Hadn't realized I'd fallen into not enjoying it until I was out of the spiral)  Hugs always appreciated!!