Oh no! Boys!

[jmgraydz]

the answers we are looking for are so deep we will probably never have an answer for.... because you dont know how rooted a persons child hood affected there view of who they should be attracted to.... if a person will fal into a role of dating a guy instead because of ease... there are so many dependant factors and how truthful a person is with themselves that who really knows lol...

[monica93304]

I dated women my whole life (35 years ) and then transition came on and I only date men now at age 45.  It just feels right.  And I say that not coming from a purely sexual stand point.  From a companionship point of view it feels natural. 

HRT did accelerate my views towards men by the way.

[stephaniec]

my new joy is when a cute guy smiles at me

[kariann330]

I was Bi before transition but was more 70/30 towards men. Basically women had what I wanted and just didn't have the strength to admit it enough to make a change. Now I'm more 50/50 but the green eye still raises it's ugly face when I see someone and I'm thinking "that's such a cute outfit....but my fat butt will totally never fit it....she's a bi#&h".
But I will say that my therapist found an interesting study (I don't know where it was found sadly) where a doctor followed 3 transgender females, prior to transition one was straight, one was gay and one asexual. Interestingly enough the two girls who have had sex admitted to experiences outside of their normal but didn't go into current relationships or sexual attractions. The girl who was asexual prior to transition admitted to having over 350 sexual partners in a three year period after surgery with partners of both genders but was with more men then women.

I guess anything really can happen unless that study was falsified to make us look bad.

[alexis.j]

Strictly woman only for me pre-hrt,  and after several months  of hrt, it has shifted to guys... It gets very confusing for me sometimes and trying to figure all these feelings out.

[Sabrina]

Currently, I'm attracted to the ladies but have entertained the idea of being with a guy. Due to my current living situation, I'm not able to fully explore and develop my feminine side as I would like. Once I'm able to live on my own, things will be better. Nothing kills romance like being in your parents house.

[Dodie]

Its a real mind bender.... I did not really care what happened then all of the sudden it hit me and when I would see a handsome dude my mouth would start watering.. its so weird.. now I am just into guys... can't wait for GRS... then I will date.. until then I am just a tease..
Dodie/Keri

[LizMarie]

I always knew I had bisexual tendencies but tried to shut it down, especially in the time and place where I grew up. Then I was married and tried to be the faithful husband but that's now all water under the bridge. Once I've completed GRS and had time to heal, I'll be looking into the dating scene, and when I do, yes, men are definitely on my list!

[Tessa James]

I have always been BI/pansexual and find there are so very many wonderful and attractive people regardless of gender.   Another person's gender is irrelevant to me in considering them as attractive and we are currently monogamous so it is for entertainment purposes only    I have had enough experience to consider people creative enough that there is always someone out there that can float your boat.

[awilliams1701]

Generally I'm only interested in girls. I'm open to the possibility that might change but it hasn't. If anything I'm curious to know what it would be like, but I'm more repulsed than curious.
As for determining if a guy is attractive or not. I can only think of two off the top of my head. Paul Walker (R.I.P.) and Chris Pine. I actually remember watching Star Trek 2009 (wishing I had brought sun glasses) thinking wow he has such pretty eyes. There might be a couple of others but that's basically it and right now pretty eyes isn't enough to make me interested.

[Emily E]

This is interesting but something I have been thinking about a lot lately (along with everything else to do with transitioning) right now I'm not on HRT or anything and I'm highly attracted to women but over the last 7 years I've been playing a girl in an online role playing game (come to think of it I never been anything but a girl in online games) and while I started basically oriented to women (lesbian) over the years I have had numerous encounters with men and now I sort of orient as BI with a slant to women. 

Now my attitude in real life is still oriented towards women and right now I can't ever see myself in any kind of lasting relationship with a man but if I transition through HRT and SRS (which I hope to start soon) I totally expect that if I start to find men attractive I'll want to see how my new equipment works with one at least once.

[Laura_7]

I was Bi before transition but was more 70/30 towards men. Basically women had what I wanted and just didn't have the strength to admit it enough to make a change. Now I'm more 50/50 but the green eye still raises it's ugly face when I see someone and I'm thinking "that's such a cute outfit....but my fat butt will totally never fit it....she's a bi#&h".
But I will say that my therapist found an interesting study (I don't know where it was found sadly) where a doctor followed 3 transgender females, prior to transition one was straight, one was gay and one asexual. Interestingly enough the two girls who have had sex admitted to experiences outside of their normal but didn't go into current relationships or sexual attractions. The girl who was asexual prior to transition admitted to having over 350 sexual partners in a three year period after surgery with partners of both genders but was with more men then women.

I guess anything really can happen unless that study was falsified to make us look bad.

Imo there are a few factors involved...
some people are set free to no longer go against a gender they feel they do not belong to...
some people can relax into the gender they like...
and of course some go through another puberty...
and there is some kind of biological thing, with pheromones for example...

some were bi in the beginning, for example, and it just came out...

[Dodie]

I got a crush on a dude the other day.. someone I met at dinner with friends.. I was like wow your biceps are huge do you work out... .. My girlfriend later said I learn to fast... LOL.
But they were big.. I was not just saying that ..
Anyway... I can't quit thinking about him but he is taken and I am not ready....
I love this universe..
Dodie

[rachel89]

I know i am bi i think i used to prefer 90%-95% female 5-10% male its something more like 50/50 now and I'm pre-HRT. lately I'm more into guys though (at least my light wallet form male stripper night at the gay bar says so )

[Kira357]

I have only ever been into women pre-transition, with many gf's and 2 wives. I was warned about the effects of HRT on sexuality and sure enough... about a month ago, I started noticing guys... yup... 

[awilliams1701]

I've noticed very recently in the past week, I find butch lesbians attractive now but not as much as feminine lesbians. Previously I only found feminine girls attractive. Still not into guys.

[PsychedelicSage]

I like to think of myself as pansexual, but mainly lesbian.

Before I started HRT and before I started transitioning and admitted to myself I'm a woman, I was very very straight and had a few girlfriends. I did try having sex with a man back then because I was sex starved and needed sex lol, but I didn't really like it.

But since starting HRT I enjoy having sex with a man once in awhile quite a lot haha(x not as much as with a woman but still, I enjoy it more than I did before HRT.

I mean I do have strictly sexual attraction to FEMININE men, but masculinity is a big big turn off for me in men.
And I would never date or have a relationship with a man lol.

But since I started HRT I have begun to find butch lesbians very attractive, possibly more attractive than femme lesbians. c: