Another mtf question about orgasms

[AshleyJordan]

Hi, just another curious person, post op, can you orgasm? And get "wet"? If so how long after can you and what causes you to orgasm or get wet? (Ex. Oral sex being performed on you, PIV, masturbation, etc)

[Lara1969]

Yes I am orgasmic, clitoral and vaginally. I get wet when I am aroused meaning I do not need to masturbate or so. Just my imagination.

I love the feeling beeing penetrated by a man.

[suzifrommd]

Not yet. I'm 10 months post-op, and I've come close, but not been able to seal the deal. Haven't been with a partner, so it's been solo flights so far.

[Jenna Marie]

Supposedly, about 90% of women who can orgasm pre-op can do so afterward too. In any event, it took me a few months to figure out how, but I can orgasm from clitoral stimulation, primarily. (My first post-op orgasm was in my sleep 3 weeks after GRS, so I knew it was possible, at least.)

I do get a little wet (and squirt a bit at orgasm), and I've recently noticed that I get wetter from penetration - the longer it goes on, the more my body seems to respond, versus a little bit from clitoral stimulation alone.

[Dee Marshall]

I have a sneaking suspicion that it's a combination of both sex hormones being low early and later a new more gradual methodology being necessary. Lots of cis women have told me it took them a while while going through puberty, too. Just biologically a male having quick orgasms leads to more sperm distribution and a woman having slower orgasms, and/or multiples leads to greater opportunity for conception.

[AshleyJordan]

Is oral sex stimulating enough for orgasm as well? This is something I've been curious about for a while as I'm mainly attracted to women

[Jenna Marie]

I think it depends on the person, like most things; my wife, for example, doesn't really enjoy oral sex at all. On the other hand, it's enough to get me to orgasm when coupled with gentle fingering or a small insertable vibrator.

[AshleyJordan]

So are you saying yes you can as a mtf?

[Jenna Marie]

Yes?

My wife, who is not a trans woman, cannot orgasm from oral sex. I (who am a trans woman) have managed to orgasm from oral sex plus other stimulation, on occasion.

But lesbians can do other things, too.