Quote from: makipu on May 02, 2015, 04:05:34 PM
My goal is simple: Not to ever have any amount of bleeding from periods and I don't want to continuously take external hormones of any kind. I've been searching countless information to confirm the chances of the risks associated with hysterectomy and I can't take how overwhelmed and beat it made my mentality. Basically, the doctor is saying there is no other option besides the surgery for what I am looking for. The hysterectomy I am supposed to have involves removing uterus and cervix but... I recently learned about 'ovary failure' and 'premature menopause' EVEN THOUGH the ovaries will be untouched...
If you have any female reproductive anatomy, you must, must, must get exams until the technology changes to just allow blood tests or something. Pregnancy aside, you have to check for cancer, and yes, you can get ovarian cancer even after a hysterectomy. And yes, you can have all sorts of issues with your ovaries if you have a hysterectomy - though, it's not guaranteed at all.
If you don't want to have a hysterectomy, you shouldn't have it - it's that simple. Assuming that you live in the US, you can go on birth control that stops or reduces periods with little hormonal effect (progesterone-based IUD for example); I'm planning to do this at some point also. To go on birth control, you may have to get a pelvic exam if you haven't had one in the past three years, and certainly if you've had one come back abnormal. If you are sexually active with a partner who could potentially impregnate you, you have to get a pregnancy test before starting.
Regarding insurance, if you are listed in their records as male, they will likely not cover any female-specific procedures or medications. You'd have to check with your insurance provider, and find out if they cover trans-specific procedures. For example, my health insurance currently lists me as "female transitioning to transgender male," so that once I have top surgery, it will list me effectively as "T" instead of as "M," which allows me to retain coverage for birth control, etc.
Honestly, it sounds like you need to get a new doctor who is more sensitive to what your health goals are.