What was your relationship status when you accepted being transgender

[stephaniec]

just  a curious statistical question in regards to our little community. ( disclaimer: this is just a curious statistical inquiry not meant to harm in anyway. I'm finding these polls and the shapes of the curves produced quite intriguing .)

[Devlyn]

I was single. How about a height or age poll? Naturally, we all know that the ratio of head hair per square inch versus the thickness of the little toes calluses is the only TRUE measure of a transgender person! 

Hugs, Devlyn

[Mariah]

I was single long term at that point. I hadn't been in any relationships until after transitioning. Hugs
Mariah

[stephaniec]

I was single. How about a height or age poll? Naturally, we all know that the ratio of head hair per square inch versus the thickness of the little toes calluses is the only TRUE measure of a transgender person! 

Hugs, Devlyn

I think that would be interesting the more polls the better to delve into the mystique of the transgender individual. I think if we count the number of root canals divided by the square root of the color of hair times the thickness of your index figure we could give a pretty good presentation on why it is preferable for the health of society to mandate all establishments to have unisex bathrooms under the penalty of law.

[Adam (birkin)]

I was in a long term relationship

[KaylaMadison]

I was married

[Cheska]

I was in a short-term relationship.

[enigmaticrorschach]

i was single, and still am -.- oh loneliness, why art thou so cruel

[suzifrommd]

Broke apart my 20+ year marriage because I wanted to be girl.

Been dating for about a year and half now, but haven't got anything to work.

[femmebutt]

Helped my 8 year long-term turmoil evolve past the dregs of dysfunction. Into what? Separate ways, happily so.

[Obfuskatie]

I realized I was trans when I was in a long term not so good relationship.
I accepted it almost 10 years later when I was single. [emoji12]


     Hugs,
- Katie
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[Zoetrope]

Everything came to a head during my last long-term relationship.

I accepted it then and there, and even my partner at the time was OK with it.

Still, our relationship dynamic changed after that. We began to feel like we were sisters or female cousins, trying to pose as a couple.

It was because the nature of our relationship changed, that we separated. No hard feelings. Regardless of gender or identity, people do change sometimes.

[amber roskamp]

I knew when I was single, thought dating could help with that problem. I got a girlfriend it didn't help we broke up. Got another one to make sure lol (wasn't very smart  ). We broke up. Then I committed to my transition. That was like 2 years ago....

[stephaniec]

i was single, and still am -.- oh loneliness, why art thou so cruel

same boat here

[Jenna Marie]

Happily married then, and happily married now (thankfully).

[Valwen]

I was single. When I was 7 or 8 I kissed a girl under a blanket up a tree, I am now 33 and that it's still the closest I have ever been to a romantic or sexual relationship. Which is terrifyingly sad, early on it was depression, self hate and anti-social feelings, later on it was depression, self hate, anti-social feelings as well as dysphoria and the idea that it would be cruel to expect someone else to deal with the mess that is my gender and sexuality, not that many people offer.

--Serena

[JoanneB]

I was single. How about a height or age poll? Naturally, we all know that the ratio of head hair per square inch versus the thickness of the little toes calluses is the only TRUE measure of a transgender person! 

Hugs, Devlyn

Hmmmm
Head Hair per sq-in... 5
Toe Callouses  Lots   I do a lot of walking

[saharo]

Still havent totally accepted myself and found my true identity. I do think im a demi guy though. I see that more clearly everyday.

[noleen111]

i was single, did not have much interest in relationships at that point. I only really had one friend at that point. She is female (we are best friends now) and she helped my a lot accept myself, she loved dressing me up in those days.. she taught me alot about matching outfits, how to walk in heels and how to apply makeup.

[iKate]

Married