why did it take so long

[meganmichelle]

I always say that if a friend can't accept me for who I am, then it's not really a friend.
But I mean.. they usually come around eventually if they care! So, it's ok. 
But relationships aren't always easy. They change, and that can be ok, especially if we can surround ourselves with those that do care and accept us. Look big! never lose hope because there Are caring and accepting people in the world.
Even though I say that, I still understand the hopelessness. It's not easy. But open at least just a bit if you can, there's to be good stuff too.

yup i agree yet she married me as a guy and now thats a different story or eventually will be and so its complicated.  i do agree with you though that friendship should trump my gender. and true love and who i am inside should be whats important.