I don't like being fluid .-.

[enigmaticrorschach]

well ateast my face is coming along great but it only adds to my troubles .-. never though of myself as andro. I'm one of those nerdy extreme sports type of tomboys. you guys are also for letting g me gripe and groan and not get irritated lol

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[martine]

Hi Echo,

My experience is very similar to yours. I'm a nerdy tomboy sporty physicist and for many years I remained on the fence as I could not help but associate my deeply rooted feeling to be and present like a woman with a strong case of "the grass is greener on the other side". I was essentially avoiding to make the very hard decision to transition while mistakenly, and maybe purposefully, bundling gender identity and expression together.

While I was living yet another "visiting the other side of the fence" crisis it suddenly dawned on me that primo, I had but one life to live which should not be a torture, and secundo, I could be a nerdy tomboy sporty physicist GIRL ! No need for me to oppose the parts of me that are more female and those that are more male. Just blend it all together !

In a nutshell, let's blend instead of opposing and let's not mistaken identity with expression.

Hang in there, you'll make it through,

Sincerely,

Martine


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