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I tell a friend and went ok. I think

Started by Kalex, May 18, 2015, 06:14:09 PM

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Kalex

First, sorry for my english, is a mix of me and google translate with the verbs.

Well, I tried to come out yesterday and I think it went well?

It was awful. The story went something like this: I have my fan blog and my "other blog"  (a.k.a, the trans blog) A friend of mine knew about me having a second tumblr but he didnt know about what.
I wrote her a mail, because I'd probably pass out if I do it in person, and told almost nothing. I put the link to the blog and said basically "google it". I know, it wasnt my best move. 

She answered me but I panicked and didnt read it. I ignore here 24 hours and finally I was a little brave and read the freaking mail. I wasnt what I expected, less question I've imagined.
The point is, she told me that it didnt surpised her. Was a relief.

Im still not talking to her, I dont know what to say, but hey! first step, I think.

:D
Just because you spend a lot of time with someone doesnt mean you know their darkest secrets
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Ms Grace

Well she replied to you, so that's a good sign. She wasn't dismissive or disbelieving so that's even better. You should get back to her, don't leave her thinking she's done something wrong.
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Rachel

Sounds like it went well. An e-mail to her would be a good 2nd move.
HRT  5-28-2013
FT   11-13-2015
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Hair Grafts 3-20-2017 - Cooley
Voice therapy start 3-2017 - Reene Blaker
Labiaplasty 5-15-2017 - McGinn
BA 7-12-2017 - McGinn
Hair grafts 9-25-2017 Dr.Cooley
Sataloff Cricothyroid subluxation and trachea shave12-11-2017
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Dr. McGinn vaginal revision 2 4-3-2019 Bottom of vagina closed off, fat injected into the labia and urethra repositioned.
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Kalex

We just said hi and good night. Was...awkward.  For me al least. Dont know if I have to bring up the subjet? Let her talk? Run away and dont stop until Alaska? Alaska sounds good.  :-\
Just because you spend a lot of time with someone doesnt mean you know their darkest secrets
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Fids

Definitely a good first step! If she says she isn't surprised by it, it sounds to me as though she's pretty accepting. It can be daunting, but maybe you should talk to her again!
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