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You must be a guy if...

Started by highlight, May 30, 2015, 09:48:36 AM

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I feel not as a guy or not even in-between guy and girl (androgyne). I  do feel mostly like a girl, but have a few interests and mannerisms. That could only be seen as somewhat male.

I have a male sense of humor and a love of practical jokes. I have a male sense of what is "cool" and a love of video games. I have mostly male people who I look up to.

I like skateboarding and although I have never done free running, I can see why people do and why I would like to do it some day.

These all seem male, what does this mean? 
"If I am lucky Mr talent will rub his tendrils on my art"
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MacG

Your interests may be more common in guys, but are certainly not exclusive to men.
Your interests are just that. Your interests.
Also, some of the interests you've listed don't seem at all dominantly male.

Marly

Most of my hobbies are pretty general..photography, baking, computers. But I also vary from growing flowers to racing remote control race cars  ::)
I'd kill myself on a skateboard. But I don't think we are defined by our hobbies. I know a CIS female kick-boxer who loves what she does (and I try real hard not to piss her off)
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Laura_7

Questions to ask could be:
would you like a bit more female body to be a bit more happy?
And you don't have to identify as female all of the time.

How would you like to be perceived ?

You might start with easy reversible steps, like changes to hair and clothing style.
and see how it makes you feel... I'd say go with a feeling of joy....


Gender identity and gender expression are two different things...
and often people have interests that lie in a spectrum... it makes for a varied personality...


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highlight

I think it may have a lot to do with growing up as a guy. To be honest I don't know that much about what girls do.  :(
"If I am lucky Mr talent will rub his tendrils on my art"
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