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Femininity in character

Started by Wild Flower, June 04, 2015, 05:48:40 AM

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Wild Flower

I am a guy in appearance (but with femininity in personality) at the moment.

The past week. 1 guy stop and pick me up to take me to work (we are aquantances), 1 guy sat at my table because he generally likes me, 1 female talk about sex in innuendos to me **but in a hetero way**, 1 female refer to me as little (in a friendly way), 1 guy stop and helped me with a heavy box without me asking (actually 2) their reason 'i want to just because.'...

Are these coincendences or my femininity to be blame??

I dont really know... Im just nice to everyone I meet.
"Anyone who believes what a cat tells him deserves all he gets."
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stephaniec

people can be pretty nice. I had a woman a few years ago when I was going home from work standing for a bus and she attempted to zipper my jacket for me because it was quite cold by my zipper was broken which she didn.t know.
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Wild Flower

Hm.hm. hmm.

I do hate guessing at whether they see an agreeable woman, a gay man, or just something entirely else.

I say see, because the woman who called me little said I look like a girl a few months ago (shave to the scalp too).

Its like seeing an optical illusion. You only see it when you squint your eyes. I have an innocence appeal to me (people tell me this all the time), you seem so sheltered, innocent, blah blah blah, when its just the fact I dont talk about sex.

Enough guessing, I am going to get hormones once Im back in the states. The only thing I hate about myself are my feet but even in their ugliness they are female like (bunion.. i dont even wear high heels) and im pigeon toed
"Anyone who believes what a cat tells him deserves all he gets."
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RavenL

Quote from: Wild Flower on June 04, 2015, 07:34:52 AM

Its like seeing an optical illusion. You only see it when you squint your eyes. I have an innocence appeal to me (people tell me this all the time), you seem so sheltered, innocent, blah blah blah, when its just the fact I dont talk about sex.


I've been dealing with the same problem with people telling me the same thing. I've just been trying to brush it off and ignore it. However my coworkers have been thinking I'm gay for months. Since I never talk about sex or check other women out. Even one younger lady that I work with says I don't act male. Just a couple nights ago at work I had two guys asking my about girls and my anxiety got really bad where I wanted to throw up. And they kept asking me why I wouldn't talk. I finally said I was just focused on getting the job done and I had some personal issues. They finally understood and left me alone. I was still feeling anxiety and feeling sick. But once my lunch break came around I went out to my car and sat and listened to music and calmed down. And rest of the night went fine for me.

I also kind of understand the feet thing. But I've finally just come to accept it and they don't bother me now. I think wearing a pair of flats helped me out since my feet looked good in them. 






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