Just Ordered My Very First STP Natural Brief Harness Combo!^^

[Tristyn]

I just placed the order on a site called Tranzwear.net. I bought two of these. It is an STP(Limpy), Natural(harness sewn inside) brief with a ball cage and ring to keep my "penis" from bouncing around in there. 

I hope I made the right choice in the items I got. I started off with a small(3.5"...I think) because its my first realistic packer.

I got all this(including shipping and handling) for about $50.00.

My worst fear is that someone will discover it(especially my dad ). But, hell! You'd think he wouldn't be all that surprised since he is aware I am trans. Yet he does deny it, profusely. So that's probably why.

Other than the previous statement, I am so freakin' excited!^^

However, one concern of mine, is one; How do I care for my packer? If I need cornstarch, I will wait until I go grocery shopping with my dad(he won't know what its for anyway ). And are there alternatives?  I know the Natural boxers can probably go right in the washer machine and dryer. And how about the latex-tube for peeing through my STP Limpy?

And, two...PERIODS!

Is there a way to be able to pack and wear napkins/pads? I tried to search youtube and have not been able to find anything. I'm going to search google sometime.

As you can see, even though I realize I have been transsexual all my life recently, I am a total newbie at packing, binding(other than with a back brace ), and other f2m crossdressing techniques.

So what do you dudes think?

[mm]

King Phoenix, I hope your new STP works for you.  I am still looking for the right one for me.  As for using it during stark week with pads, I don't know as I am a tampon guy all the way.  The best way I found to keep my dsphoria under control during that time of the month.  I can't see or feel it when it is inside me.

[Tristyn]

Thanks MM.

But I am way afraid of the 'pons, yo. I mean, if they help ease any dysphoria for you, then stick wit' dat, you know. Its just for me, I avoid 'em cause I read bad stuff about them. I don't wanna say a whole lot about these cause I don't wanna frighten or intimidate you or any one else who currently uses tampons. Plus, I think the dysphoria for me would be even worse than it already is if I used tampons because it would remind me of penetration. And I just cannot deal with that, man. I hate the thought of it.

[FTMax]

I started with the Mr. Limpy 3.5" packer and modded it to be an STP later on myself. I just wash the outside of mine with soap and water. I wear it 24/7 including in the shower (with a really slim harness), so it gets cleaned then along with the rest of me. At the end of the day, I remove the piece I pee through and rinse it and let it dry overnight. In the morning, it goes back in. Not sure if yours is similarly removable. You're probably fine to just run water through it and shake it out.

I wore tampons, but I'm sure you could layer a pair of underwear with the pad attached and then your packing briefs on top. When I was using a jockstrap to pack I didn't feel secure enough just leaving it as is, so I would wear boxer briefs over top. It's a little warmer, but it doesn't look odd in any way.

[sam1234]

Having to hide the packer can be a bit stressful. When I started wearing one prior to the OVH and phalloplasty, I didn't know they existed. I wound up making a material penis and testicles and stuffing it with the same stuff that stuffed animals have in them. I would safety pin that to my briefs.

Unless your parents are really snoops and check around your room, hide it someplace where no one would ordinarily have a reason to go through. Remember, if you haven't had a packer previously, you might feel a little self conscious, wondering if that bulge in your pants can be seen. I think it will help you feel better about yourself and less self conscious when in a squatting or sitting position, there is something showing between your legs.

sam1234

[Tristyn]

I started with the Mr. Limpy 3.5" packer and modded it to be an STP later on myself. I just wash the outside of mine with soap and water. I wear it 24/7 including in the shower (with a really slim harness), so it gets cleaned then along with the rest of me. At the end of the day, I remove the piece I pee through and rinse it and let it dry overnight. In the morning, it goes back in. Not sure if yours is similarly removable. You're probably fine to just run water through it and shake it out.

I wore tampons, but I'm sure you could layer a pair of underwear with the pad attached and then your packing briefs on top. When I was using a jockstrap to pack I didn't feel secure enough just leaving it as is, so I would wear boxer briefs over top. It's a little warmer, but it doesn't look odd in any way.

Sweet advice, man! As usual, I have much to say, but due to unforeseen technical difficulties on my end(as if this damn laptop got a mind of its own) it highlighted and deleted everything on its own within seconds. I don't know why this happens often. Its annoying really....I could copy as I go along but I sometimes mess up and delete it that way too!>.<

The last thing you said about wearin' boxers over underwear was especially genius. It reminds me of how I wear my leather jacket even on hot summer days to look bigger, broader, and feel more secure and comfortable. Been doin' that since eight or nine after child sexual abuse it seems.

Having to hide the packer can be a bit stressful. When I started wearing one prior to the OVH and phalloplasty, I didn't know they existed. I wound up making a material penis and testicles and stuffing it with the same stuff that stuffed animals have in them. I would safety pin that to my briefs.

Unless your parents are really snoops and check around your room, hide it someplace where no one would ordinarily have a reason to go through. Remember, if you haven't had a packer previously, you might feel a little self conscious, wondering if that bulge in your pants can be seen. I think it will help you feel better about yourself and less self conscious when in a squatting or sitting position, there is something showing between your legs.

sam1234

Its very stressful to hide somethin' like this as if it were a gun or crack or somethin'. When I came out to him as trans, he treated me like I committed an unforgiveable felony! >_< Now he in the denial stage of it. As if I have not told him. I hate this. No matter what hints I give and even after givin' him a book about it, he still in denial. I dress, walk, talk(sorta), and even sing more manly than most females who are cis, yet he treats me as if I myself am cis like him...but I am not. Its like he selfish and want his expectations of me to be upheld. What about me? I guess my human needs do not apply to him, lol.

Yeah, Sam, I do plan to hide it very well. I got other inappropriate things I hide from my pops right now(like mono sex toys). Guy must think the three letter "s" word never crosses my mind or somethin'. To him, I think he sees me as his lil' nun instead of the suave, suit-tuxedo wearin', urban-fancy, cap wearin,' ghetto-slang-proper-English talkin' guy I am who loves to sing, dance, and play videogames. No one, not even him can keep me in that female gender box for long.

P.S. A lil' update here, dudes!^^ I finally got an email this mornin' that my package has finally shipped. Hooray! Now here comes the anxiety and possible panic attack(s), ya'll....I got my fingers crossed. Haha(nervous laugh here).



~Nixy~

[MeganeRei]

Congrats on buying your first packer/Stp/brief set! I just got my first packer today from Tranzwear actually! (First real packer in general), I got the packer gear one, and I made my own harness.

As far as shark week goes, mine's due here soon, but with my crocheted packer, I just wore two pairs of briefs and had the packer between the first and second pairs since I won't use tampons either.

I know the fear about keeping it on the down low! I had mine sent general delivery so I had to go t othe post office and pick it up(yay for driving on your own!) and so it wouldn't come in the mail and people wouldn't be all nosy and wondering what I got.

Still have to keep it subtle, but everyone I think? knows I'm trans already so it might just shock 'em if they see it, but then calm down after laughing at me and being all 'oKAY mel... ummm right'

Anyway.. enjoy your packer/stp! Mine's just a packer, but I freaking love it. So squishy...

[Tristyn]

Congrats on buying your first packer/Stp/brief set! I just got my first packer today from Tranzwear actually! (First real packer in general), I got the packer gear one, and I made my own harness.

As far as shark week goes, mine's due here soon, but with my crocheted packer, I just wore two pairs of briefs and had the packer between the first and second pairs since I won't use tampons either.

I know the fear about keeping it on the down low! I had mine sent general delivery so I had to go t othe post office and pick it up(yay for driving on your own!) and so it wouldn't come in the mail and people wouldn't be all nosy and wondering what I got.

Still have to keep it subtle, but everyone I think? knows I'm trans already so it might just shock 'em if they see it, but then calm down after laughing at me and being all 'oKAY mel... ummm right'

Anyway.. enjoy your packer/stp! Mine's just a packer, but I freaking love it. So squishy...

Good for you, bro!  Glad you're really so enthusiastically pleased wit' yo' brand new, first time real packer. That really brought a smile to my face.

Also, I honestly was afraid Tranzwear could be a scammin' site after I watched a vid on YouTube by a transguy named Chase and he cautions dudes to look out for things of that nature. But after receiving my email about my products being shipped some days ago, with the tracking number to top it off, I am convinced that its oh so real and that it is oh so on its way to where I live! And seeing that you got something similar from the same site is even greater validation that what I think and feel inside of me is 'right' for me and that is A-ok, bud!



Peace.



~Nixy~

[RaptorChops]

When I was ordering from Tranzwear I was also a little iffy about it because the website seems a little.. unprofessional? BUT I received everything when I was told I would. Everything was as advertised too. I had no problems with them at all and I have ordered from them about 2 times.

[FTMax]

Tranzwear is legit. We should maybe have some kind of thread for reviews of just the businesses/individuals themselves. Most people tend to include a blurb about the experience with their review of whatever they bought, and that's not always the best for others that are trying to find info about specific sites.

[MeganeRei]

Tranzwear is legit. We should maybe have some kind of thread for reviews of just the businesses/individuals themselves. Most people tend to include a blurb about the experience with their review of whatever they bought, and that's not always the best for others that are trying to find info about specific sites.

That's a good idea!

[Tristyn]

What up, guys?

I just received my briefs and packer last week. Its not exactly perfect(well, nothing in this world is I think). But it could have been better if I didn't rush the order the way I did. I sized myself properly, but where I messed up here is that I got size 35 in men's. So that is about a large, which means next time I need to get a medium. Yeah, unfortunately they aren't a very good fit and to top it off, these type of briefs aren't all that great for a very active, exercising type of dude like me. They weren't made to hold the STP in its place when engaging in high impact exercises.

However, I still pack with them, but not during exercise or when I know I have to move in different positions that require me to spread my legs a lot, like squatting. Yeah, its a bummer, cause I want to pack all day and night but can't(well maybe all night if I am wearing the brief with the harness).

So I emailed Den, the dude who runs TranzWear, and he recommended I get Bullet Briefs with either the Free Ball insert or the All-In-One. The latter sounded far more appropriate to me for STP use, because you can simply tuck away the receptacle when its not being utilized.

As far as the packer goes, its absolutely amazing. The realism blows me away. It feels nice having something there, even if it does sometimes hang due to the briefs being too big. Which was my fault, lol.

And the STP itself works great. I still need lots of practice, especially since I tried to wait until I could save enough money to get better briefs to use it at all again until today.

As long as I don't do anything that requires a lot of motion like exercise, I should be fine for now. I also do need to buy a binder or two. Right now I am using the ones from the hospital and they are so far worn out now.