If you're stealthy, how do you find a stealthy transwoman to date?

[Evelyn K]

Serious question is serious. Where are they hanging out? LGBT clubs? Dating sites?

[kelly_aus]

Not a clue.. But I also don't go looking for them specifically. I just go out and meet peoples..

[Evelyn K]

I'm totally looking. But it would be like two cloaked ships passing each other.

I was browsing a few tumblr's and needless to say there's quite a number of transwomen that just blow my mind and I wonder what corner of the virtual world they're hanging out in. I'm sure they're communicating somehow, like the Freemasons of the trans world and I wonder how to submit my application for consideration.

The idea of dating a transwoman seems so right knowing what I am and I've been itching lately. And I don't like scratching my own itch.



Lyk. yeh.

[suzifrommd]

There's an inherent paradox, in this question, right? Like "how can I see invisible things?" You can't find someone who's stealth. That's what stealth means - that you won't find them.

[Zoetrope]

That's why I come to Susan's.

(I am joking, I am joking!)

[kelly_aus]

And, perhaps, being stealth, they don't communicate with each other. Perhaps they are just out there living their lives - I've met a couple of stealthy trans women just by getting out and meeting people. One I met on a train here in Melbourne recently..

[Cindy]

Since the question is impossible to answer, I think this thread is dead before it goes into areas that may be argumentative.