Before I was out, I had those moments a lot. I would have a short temper with my family, and they would get pretty upset with me. I would hold it all in, which wasn't good, and would try to get over it and apologize. I finally came out to them though, and now I don't have the urge to burst like that. It was definitely nice though having someone to talk to about this stuff when I wasnt out, so I was able to get it off my chest.