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How do you feel about the same or opposite gender looking at you breasts

Started by stephaniec, June 28, 2015, 07:05:56 PM

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Zoetrope

Nothing wrong with B's. To be honest I prefer them. On myself ... and on others :~]

My own ones go surprisingly well with my big round bum ...
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Ashey

I show mine off when I get the chance, lol. Out in public though, I don't really notice people looking at my breasts specifically, just checking me out in general.
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Sammy

This does not happen to me (at least I dont notice) - having an A cup (AKA hardly there) has some benefits too - in addition to not to have to wear bra even for sports activities.
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Cindy

I have to admit that I did this deliberately.

There is a colleague at work who has trouble accepting me. I was going to a meeting where I had to get his agreement to some proposals. I wore a low cut blouse and made sure I leaned forward when making my proposals.

His mind was somewhat distracted, his eyes were on my boobs and my proposals were agreed to.


I feel no guilt whatsoever!

Mea Culpa, for I have sinned ... and it was great >:-)
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Zoetrope

Quote from: Cindy on June 29, 2015, 03:34:43 AM
I feel no guilt whatsoever!

Mea Culpa, for I have sinned ... and it was great >:-)

We can reminisce together in purgatory ;~)
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Cindy

Quote from: Zoetrope on June 29, 2015, 03:44:07 AM
Quote from: Cindy on June 29, 2015, 03:34:43 AM
I feel no guilt whatsoever!

Mea Culpa, for I have sinned ... and it was great >:-)

We can reminisce together in purgatory ;~)

Transgender people go straight to Heaven, we were born in Purgatory :-* and we have been to Hell.
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Zoetrope

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rosinstraya

As I ran/walked the bay this afternoon (some support up top, but no boob jail) a man in a fluro vest copped a longing look.....then I stared straight at him, and he snapped his head away. Busted!
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Yenneffer

Lol I had this yesterday three guys at car boot were staring at my chest guys hey always thinking dirty
Hugs I love you brothers and sisters just forgive this confused girl
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Eva Marie

I have padded myself up to a "C" cup to observe what the reactions of people are and to see how I feel about having larger ones. The reaction has been 100% positive from other people and I find that I am walking around with far more self confidence now.

I haven't caught anyone staring (maybe i'm bad at noticing it?) but people have definitely noticed. Men are much more likely to smile at me and engage me in a conversation about nothing. Women immediately gender me as female and chat me up which is very nice.

If I did catch someone staring it would depend on who it is and where I am. Unattractive people in shady settings would be scary/creepy; a cute girl/guy in a social setting wouldn't be bad at all.

We have worked hard to have femininity and like Cindy I find it rather fun to use it (batting my eyelashes or showing some cleavage) to advance my own interests. Our power lies in our femininity, like a fist in a velvet glove - exercised carefully it can move the world.
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angiegurl

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pretty pauline

Quote from: Eva Marie on June 29, 2015, 08:47:40 AM

We have worked hard to have femininity and like Cindy I find it rather fun to use it (batting my eyelashes or showing some cleavage) to advance my own interests. Our power lies in our femininity, like a fist in a velvet glove - exercised carefully it can move the world.
Our femininity is our power, my DDs have got lots and lots of free drinks and cocktails over the years.
Quote from: Cindy on June 29, 2015, 03:34:43 AM
I have to admit that I did this deliberately.

There is a colleague at work who has trouble accepting me. I was going to a meeting where I had to get his agreement to some proposals. I wore a low cut blouse and made sure I leaned forward when making my proposals.

His mind was somewhat distracted, his eyes were on my boobs and my proposals were agreed to.


I feel no guilt whatsoever!

Mea Culpa, for I have sinned ... and it was great >:-)
I never tire of your wisdom Cindy.
If your going thru hell, just keep going.
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Tessa James

I waited a lifetime for these girls to really show up and I am enjoying every bit of the positive attention that comes my way.  I certainly don't want to be another objectified piece of anatomy but, as so many have noted, this is a part of the current human condition--People LOOK!   Breast are synonymous with sexuality in a simple equation that is used to sell everything under the sun.  We are a boob saturated culture.  Our feminine clothing can dress em down but is more often used to accentuate the prominence. ;D

I am fortunate to have development that works for me but my headlights are always on and even a padded bra might not cover totally if you get my points ;) 

Open, out and evolving queer trans person forever with HRT support since March 13, 2013
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LizMarie

My reaction is driven by the person looking (so hence is a reaction).

If someone is ogling and I turn and make eye contact and smile at them, if they are nice, smile back, seem appreciative, then I'm happy.

If I get the "what are you looking at, witch" look, then I get annoyed.
The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.



~ Cara Elizabeth
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stephaniec

I get a kick out of the ones that are walking towards you and wait until they're exactly on the side of you to look
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Girl Beyond Doubt

When I go out wearing a tight top and no bra, I suddenly seem to pass 100%. No stares, no giggling behind my back, no more being the target of faraway laughter.
When I conceal them somehow, people are much more likely to give me looks of disapproval or make nasty comments just within earshot.

Yeah, look at them. I am a woman. I have permission to have boobs.
The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with yourself - Mark Twain
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stephaniec

Quote from: Zoetrope on June 29, 2015, 12:07:33 AM
Nothing wrong with B's. To be honest I prefer them. On myself ... and on others :~]

My own ones go surprisingly well with my big round bum ...
I need one of those big round bums
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Laura_7

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Jenna Marie

It kind of creeps me out. I admit it was validating at first, but now it feels like (mild) sexual harassment.

With that said, I'm oblivious, so the qualifier is that if I've noticed at all, the person is being *really* blatant.
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Dena

When you don't really fill out a 44B (and I am not over weight) there isn't much to stare at so I wouldn't know the feeling.
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