depth

[doll89]

i have a question about depth.. what is a normal depth to have reached after the srs in cm? (or inch if you dont know cm)

and are you able to handle regular to large size penis when you have sex? (dont have to answer if you dont want )

thanks!!

[Laura_7]

You could have a look at this whole thread:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,191008.msg1702282.html#msg1702282

The average penis size is a bit over 5". And not all of it can be inserted in most positions...
many say between 1 and 3 inches are lost in the space in between.
In many womens journals there are positions described where its not possible to enter too deeply...

Results of srs vary, it depends on the surgeon, what materials are there, etc...

A cis vagina is stretchable to some extent but can bottom out, too. Quite a few guys who bottom out know beforehand imo.

You can dilate after srs, for width with dilators of different sizes.

hugs

[suzifrommd]

The portion of the dilator that goes all the way into me measures about 5 and a half inches. I can't imagine too many guys wanting more that that.

[Dena]

My dilator is about an 1 3/4 inches in diameter and I can handle 5 inches of it. This is a pretty good match for the skin that was used to make the vagina. While my vagina remains untested in battle, there shouldn't be a problem unless I encounter someone of a very large diameter. The important thing is you be religious about dilation after surgery. The formation of scar tissue must be controlled until after all healing is finished.

[Jenna Marie]

Depth depends on variables like the surgeon, space in the body, and donor material. I got 5.5" and can easily accommodate a 1.5" diameter dilator, which should be sufficient for most guys that a cis woman could handle - the ones who are huge or super long should already know women will have problems with them.

[januarysunshine]

I'm 20 years post op and I can tell you over time, your tissue changes to be like any regular old vag so you will stretch to accommodate any size penis or toy. As long as you dilate properly in the healing stage, you'll get good results.
I don't know how deep my vag is. I don't have my original set of stents from Montreal. I had marked them as I increased depth until I could take the biggest one all the way to the mark the doctor puts on it--and past his mark. After I got married, I ditched my stents thinking I'll never need them again, but a divorce and a new husband later, I had to purchase a new dilator. I haven't marked up the new one because it's so fancy lol...it's super fat on one end and thinner on the other and weighs a ton...I bought it from one of those approved online stores--can't remember the name. I just know because it's shaped different--kinda like a bowling pin(?) --I can't compare depth with the old stents because they were all straight, and non-weighted... I hope that makes some kind of sense?lol
Just trust that if you do the work, you'll get the results you want.

[Dena]

I'm 20 years post op and I can tell you over time, your tissue changes to be like any regular old vag so you will stretch to accommodate any size penis or toy. As long as you dilate properly in the healing stage, you'll get good results.
I don't know how deep my vag is. I don't have my original set of stents from Montreal. I had marked them as I increased depth until I could take the biggest one all the way to the mark the doctor puts on it--and past his mark. After I got married, I ditched my stents thinking I'll never need them again, but a divorce and a new husband later, I had to purchase a new dilator. I haven't marked up the new one because it's so fancy lol...it's super fat on one end and thinner on the other and weighs a ton...I bought it from one of those approved online stores--can't remember the name. I just know because it's shaped different--kinda like a bowling pin(?) --I can't compare depth with the old stents because they were all straight, and non-weighted... I hope that makes some kind of sense?lol
Just trust that if you do the work, you'll get the results you want.

WOW, times have changed. the doctor told me to buy my medically approved dilator in a dirty book store 

[januarysunshine]

Haha!! Nowadays they're art...you can leave them on your dresser!haha
You're right times sure have changed!!!lol

[Dena]

Haha!! Nowadays they're art...you can leave them on your dresser!haha
You're right times sure have changed!!!lol

Mine is art as well, I just wonder who posed for it and how they maintained the size long enough for the mold to harden.

[januarysunshine]

Haha!!!! OMG I think I just peed a little!!!!lol

[SorchaC]

I have no idea if i could handle a large penis and I really don't want to find out 

As for depth I was told just under 6 inches by Sri the first time she attacked me with a dilator. I say attacked me because she fair just forced it in because I was being naughty and resisting it because it wasn't comfortable  I somehow slightly stretched things as I now have just over 6 inches and can manage that even with Chetts number 4 dilator which I believe is 32mm in diameter. I am putting the work in now to keep the depth and mostly they all go in fairly easily now just the odd time they fight back 

Hugs

Sorcha 

[Tammy93401]

Dr. Bowers told me most cisgender women only have about 5.5 inches or so of vaginal depth - though, to be fair, cisgender vaginal tissue tends to be a bit "stretchier". So probably anything much more than 6 inches of depth is probably fine, I should think.

Tammy


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[noleen111]

I think mine is around 6 inches.. Well its deep enough for my boyfriends penis.. so i am happy

[Sarah.811]

My Doc sayd i should have about 16cm depth (6,2 inches)... that was the stent-lengh..
But at the moment i only reach 11,5cm (4,5 inch)  :-/

Hope i can handle it deeper with time, had my surgery 7 weeks ago.

[Laura_7]

My Doc sayd i should have about 16cm depth (6,2 inches)... that was the stent-lengh..
But at the moment i only reach 11,5cm (4,5 inch)  :-/

Hope i can handle it deeper with time, had my surgery 7 weeks ago.

You could have a look here, and the links there:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,195001.msg1737803.html#msg1737803
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,197658.msg1758259.html#msg1758259
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,195379.msg1752077.html#msg1752077

All at your own risk but you could try coconut oil. Just talk it throuh wih your doc.
It has small molecules which can help soften the tissue.
Many use it with dilation.
Just be sure the dilation tool is oil resistant.
It has even some antifugal and antiviral properties.
Remember to use latex free condoms then, you might look up which ones are good.

Dilating from time to time with an estrogen cream from the gyn might also help soften the tissue.


hugs

[AnonyMs]

I can't speak for myself, but I hear Suporn gets 7 to 8" on occasion. I don't know how common it is.

[warmbody28]

I'm sitting at 7 inches. Which really doesn't matter unless you have a guy who is also able to give you 7 inches. I know that sounds gross. But it's true

[Laura_7]

I'm sitting at 7 inches. Which really doesn't matter unless you have a guy who is also able to give you 7 inches. I know that sounds gross. But it's true

Well there are also toys 
For any size 

[warmbody28]

The real thing is so much better though. Some guys are small, average. My guy now doesn't bottom out in me but he sure knows how to get the job done. Due to recent surgery no sex for 3 more weeks but so looking forward to when we can again

[Karen5519]

I can't speak for myself, but I hear Suporn gets 7 to 8" on occasion. I don't know how common it is.

I did not have surgery with Suporn but I have a couple of girlfriends who have in the past 18 months and they tell me that they should be able to get up to seven inches in depth.  It is my understanding that Suporn has developed some new methods that he employs with his surgery that allows for increased depth.  Again, as everyone else has stated this will only be realized if you stick to the proper dilation schedule.  In my case, it has been true that the longer you have been post-op the more you stretch which increases your ability to take more length and width from your partner.