Here's the thing, everyone has passing potential IMHO. It depends on your determination, luck and monetary situation more than anything sometimes. I'd suggest counseling and finding allies first and foremost, because being happy is WAY more important than how good you look dolled up. Also, I'd never wear lipstick with a crewcut plain T-shirt, but that's more a question of style choices not blending in per-se.
Hugs,
- Katie
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