Quote from: stephaniec on July 16, 2015, 04:59:57 PM
I feel my transition has been quite complicated and painful. I wish transition could of been done at birth , but whatever. I think I've always viewed my path in life as trying to heal an abysmal wound. I'm finally getting there.
I didn't see "Complicated and Painful" as a choice

Find the courage to do something for me resonated on two levels. "Doing something for me" has been a fairly foreign concept. Much of my life was directed towards doing what was expected of me, either by others (parents, grandparents, ect.) or myself. Being the "Go along to get along", hide in the background type of person, doing something as totally outrageous as transitioning, even daring to think of it in terms other then a fantasy, took and still takes courage.
My fears ruled my life, my soul, for decades.