Hi Ashey;
When I transitioned the first time in my 30's, just after I started living full time, I moved in with a couple who had known me for quite some time, they encouraged me to take the step to go full time and in fact the husband helped me get my first job as a Woman with references At that stage I thought I was a Lesbian and, but also wanted the love of a man, but wasn't certain that I wanted to be penetrated anally, but I was also feeling very submissive. At first I started spending most weekends with them (they lived about an hour from me), but the husband wanted me to spend more time with his wife (we used to go shopping together a lot) and eventually when I lost my job by being outed, Derek & Yvonne persuaded me to move in full time with them as a way to make ends meet. I had my own bedroom, but I rarely slept in it as we all shared the Main bedroom. I was very much the submissive in the relationship, but Yvonne encouraged me a lot and spent hours and days with me encouraging me, teaching me and shaping my feminine personality. She taught me to cook, tried to teach me sewing and dress making (I was never very good).The husband worked full time and always expected both of us to look really nice (and sexy) for when he came home each night. We both took in turns to cook a nice hot dinner for him with his G&T on ice when he arrived. For me it was an incredibly rewarding period of nearly a year and it only ended when they decided to retire to Corfu. They were 20 years older than me and although it was a poly relationship, I was very much the submissive one in the overall relationship,, although its probably fair to say that Yvonne was also submissive, although with Derek around they both treated me as the more submissive one in the relationship. Yvonne treated me as her equal when Derek was not around almost as my big sister. They wanted me to go with them to Corfu (sort of as their au-pair), but at that stage I didn't want to leave the UK
