Answering Kids Questions

[Murplethepurple]

As a 15 y/o M/F transsexual I do not use my "boy parts" for anything other than the bathroom. But being in highschool a lot of conversation turns to what the boys like to watch while they use their "boy parts". When they ask me what I like to watch how am I supposed to answer them without letting them know that I am transsexual? This question has been bothering me for quite a while now and I finally decided that someone here could probably help me with the right answer.

[suzifrommd]

As a 15 y/o M/F transsexual I do not use my "boy parts" for anything other than the bathroom. But being in highschool a lot of conversation turns to what the boys like to watch while they use their "boy parts". When they ask me what I like to watch how am I supposed to answer them without letting them know that I am transsexual? This question has been bothering me for quite a while now and I finally decided that someone here could probably help me with the right answer.

That's really, really intrusive. Of course lots of guys are really, really intrusive.

I'd turn it back on them.

"Why do you want to know? Why are you so interested in my sex life?"

If anyone presses you, turn it around on them. "Why are you so interested in what someone else watches? Are you looking to get in on it or something?" Say it with irritation, like the very thought grosses you out.

Most straight guys will give it up quickly after that.

[Murplethepurple]

Thank you for the tip suzifrommd. I agree boys are intrusive. Always asking questions and never wanting to answer the same questions back.

[Valwen]

you could also just go very casual and say "the usual stuff, no weird kinks here, the internet is an amazing place"

[Murplethepurple]

LOL. That wouldn't work nowadays cause they would just want to see my browsing history. Which I don't delete because I have no porn to hide and my parents know that am transsexual. The problem is they would then see that I have about a billion sites for transgender resources and other such things in my history and bookmarks.

[sparrow]

"What do you like to watch?"  "Your mom."

I'm kinda curious about your generation.  I was in high school 20 years ago, and I was one of the very few kids savvy enough to have access to such content.  Back then, most kids my age only had access to their dad's stash, so this topic of conversation wasn't really a part of my childhood.  I suspect that suzi and I interpret this as much more intrusive than your average boy does today.  I'd personally take advice from oldsters like us with a grain of salt... but here goes nothing.

I guess the question is "do you want to fit in with boys while you're still in the closet?"  If you don't, then your answer won't matter much.  Just say "I'm not into that" or "that's gross, get away from me" or something along those lines.

If you do, then it can be tricky.  You can blame your parents.  They check on your browser history and your phone, so you don't watch it.  You can say something that's on the boundary of truthfulness, "I don't need porn to get off".

[Murplethepurple]

I will use your tip to take your help with a grain of salt because nowadays there is always the nerdy kid that the popular kids will pay to access "secret" information. Good thing is I like to spend more time with the girls so everybody thinks I am a tomgirl because I can keep up with the girls conversations for the most part. I could care less about boys. I think all their "personell hygiene" items do nothing to keep them clean.

[Dena]

I suspect it wouldn't work for you but my response is there is far more to life than sex or I am a private person and don't talk about things like that. To be honest with you, I was so much of an outcast that very few people even talked to me when I was in school. I am thinking about attending my 45th high school reunion as me for the first time but I doubt over half a dozen people will even remember the old me, none the new me.

[Murplethepurple]

Well thats alright. there is always laser removal.