Quote from: Lady Smith on July 14, 2015, 01:58:27 PM
New Zealand was a primitive wasteland back then when it came to anything medical about trans-people, but I somehow survived it. Despite my bad experiences I'm awfully glad I didn't have to play musical gatekeepers with letters and referrals like it seems everybody has to do now.
This is what I was referring to earlier in this discussion. Its exactly what I thought, but right now in Sydney, seeing the people I did, its not true at all. Its dead easy. I was fully prepared to go it alone and work around anything and everything, and in the end the only things holding me back were myself. It's safe to say I wasted a fair bit of time and effort with this.
The only thing that have held me back is myself, choosing not to start HRT until I wanted (had) to, and generally trying to slow things down. At every stage where I've been ready to go to the next step nobody has stood in the way in the slightest, and I'm far from following the standard transgender story.
Its kind of ironic that after all that research and effort I'm confident I can do whatever I want, and yet there's nothing to actually do. It all seems too easy somehow.