What is killing your face is your eye. We look at are face for so long looking at the male that we don't see the female. I have seen faces very much like your on young women before the hormones put the finishing touches on them. I even recall a few young girls in movies that faces much like you. You jaw is a little on the strong side but not as strong as mine. You have a long face like mine but you wisely have a shorter, full hair cut that round the face and covers the forehead. As I said, hormones make very small but noticeable changes. I took hormones for months and then one day I looked in the mirror and I saw my mother staring back at me. For a moment it was a bit uncomfortable but thats when I noticed the changes the hormones had made to my face.
I am not saying your face will be extremely attractive but I think once you are done, it will gender female from a photos.
Green is not normally much of a problem in makeup but red is. I would like you to have some blush on your cheeks but that isn't going to happen unless we can figure out a way to control the application. Normally with blush, I apply it and use a kleenex to remove the extra blush but that is all by eye. Your formal and informal makeup may consist of a base with power to finish it. That you can apply by feel and use a kleenex to even it out and eye makeup. Stay away from blush and lipstick unless you have somebody to apply it for you. This is more of a natural look and unless somebody looks close, they may assume you are not wearing makeup, but every little bit helps in this game.