I think gays (male or female, or somewhere inbetween) are awesome. At this point I might be considered a gay man. I'm in love with another ftm. Do I consider myself gay? No, because I don't consider gender at all and I"m typically attracted to girls, but this guy was an exception.
Some ftm's might claim to hate gay males because they're jealous that they can be effeminate and be recognized as guys...or maybe because they're gay themselves but feel unaccepted in teh gay male community because they don't have the same plumbing. *shrug* My 2 cents.
