Natasha, it's not uncommon. It's hard for us to not be aware of how feminine we come off while in public because we often focus so much on passing that worry more about it. The best thing I can recommend is relax and be you because no matter how feminine you come off it doesn't make you any less a woman. Remember, woman come in all shapes and sizes. If it helps, you might try talking to a therapist about it. They also maybe able to help you with how you feel right now. Hugs
Mariah