How to attract potential BF?

[princessKisses]

Hi everyone. I would like to ask about your personal experience on how to attract a guy. <3

[Chloe]

tick toc . . . tick tic . . . . tick toc . . . . ANYBODY ?

Have you ever read this?? The Second Most Beautiful Girl in New York

Guys are DANGEROUS . . . which is why most 'trans' prefer (achm) stick with 'women'.? Ever had a 'gay' boyfriend! Sex is iffy but the attention's usually GREAT!!

The Quick Guide . . .

[princessKisses]

LoL no girls for me. I am attracted only to boys. Yes i think most straight boys only want sex in us hahaha.

[2cherry]

Have you ever read this?? The Second Most Beautiful Girl in New York

This is the only paragraph I respect:

"We had chemistry right away. She was mysterious," Ryan said. "Then a friend of a friend hipped me to what her situation was. And I thought, well, she was so hot that it didn't deter me in the least. It excited me, it intrigued me. Mostly I thought, 'Wow, I respect this person.' Usually when you're attracted to a girl, you don't necessarily respect her. But when I found out that she had done that and gone through it, and looks amazing, I immediately thought, 'Wow, this sounds like someone who's really cool and worth knowing, in addition to being really hot.'

Pretty cool! I had a guy once who told me the same about uniqueness and respecting me, except for the "hot" part. 


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[Atom]

That dating guide made me laugh. Not every man out there is a beast.

[EmilyMK03]

That dating guide made me laugh. Not every man out there is a beast.

Yup!  Most of my guy friends (when I lived as a man) were not the typical aggressive male types.  They were and are genuinely good men.  And no, they are not gay or trans.    So I know that good men are out there!

[Atom]

Yup!  Most of my guy friends (when I lived as a man) were not the typical aggressive male types.  They were and are genuinely good men.  And no, they are not gay or trans.    So I know that good men are out there!

Exactly.  Someone I knew at college decided to transition, and she did the whole sexuality adventure thing. Always open about her status-  Pretty much every guy or girl she met was fine with it.  Only one or two ->-bleeped-<- types gravitated towards her, and they were kicked to the curb quick smart.

While there are men (and women also), who are happy to have an adverse reaction to gender status - there are also some real diamonds out there.

[Lady Sarah]

Situations may vary. I live In a very rural area. Most of the single guys here want a woman that is more than willing to support them.

I went on some mainstream dating sites. I posted some nice pictures, and one of me in a bikini. A refined profile helped. I know most guys never read profiles, so I mentioned they should use the word "squirrel" in the first message. It worked. I found my husband 200 miles away, and he fell in love the moment he showed up at my house.

They ain't all sex-crazed creeps.

[pretty pauline]

I met my husband in similar circumstances, he didn't know my history when we first dated, we work thru it and he finally accepted my situation, we never discuss, it's history.

Situations may vary.  Most of the single guys here want a woman that is more than willing to support them.

They ain't all sex-crazed creeps.

So true, my hubby just a normal typical guy, not sex crazy but does love to see me in a bikini, we support each other and he does give me confidence as a woman which is important to me, life is so normal, the normality of it all.

[Maria77]

I do think it's getting better for our community in general.  People know that we are out there and dont think it's as weird anymore.  Mature  men seem to care a lot less-maybe because many have already done the whole 'having kids' thing.   

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