the hard part about this is women can do perrty much any thng as for gender roles today and most ppl do nto give it a sec. thought thou guys on the other hand not to cry, clean, shop, or stay at home and take care or the kids and fialmy yeah men do this today but are looked down cuse its not a Male gender Role. females can go shopping, clean the house then go change the car oil and no one will think anyhting of it.