Thank You Mickie, Barbie, Stephaniec and Lady Smith
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Lady Smith, I should tell them because I basically transitioned on the job and told only to the closest circle. The other colleagues dont know and they treat and speak to me as a guy (pronouns etc). I guess, this is one of the issues encountered when doing "slow, step-by-step approach" instead of "shock and awe" like showing up to the office while wearing a dress. Another drawback - and that's why I have finally pushing things forwards, is that there are newcomers and with them it's constant male fail no matter what I wear, so I have run into a couple of awkward situations and it just starts to become annoying.
Barbie, I am not sure I might loose my job - there are very few people in my country who are experts in the area that we are working in, besides, I have been doing this for 11 years and my superiors value me a lot. I kept things at hold because nobody could give me a definite answer if I would go the public route (I am on informed consent), would I be treated as mentally ill person, or not. But going the public route is the only way to get my gender legally changed, so I guess the only way to find those modalities out - is to start the proceedings and see what happens. I strongly suspect that they would make an exception for me and that could somehow smoothen the road for others.
