I'm not at all dysphoric about my genitals, but when my clothes are on, I want to look femme, so I put a very small amount of effort into tucking. I can't push the kids up inside, so I push the penis between the testes, pull on my panties, and I'm good to go. If you watch me pee, you wouldn't even realize I was tucking when I went to pull my pants back on.
If I do this for too many days, or it's been too long since my last orgasm, I start to ache, so I take a day off and wear looser pants & undies. I don't like how I look in some skirts... but that's true of any woman! I'd love to wear pencil minis... but really, it ain't cute, so I don't. I might go for an orchi eventually, but for now, I work with what I've got.