Nice big welcome to Susan's Zach
Congrats, despite the complications for you on becoming a parent xx But I do know how that can complicate, for me, not necessarily the same way, but complicate, nevertheless.
You've certainly come to the right place for support and contact with lots of folks here... hope the forum's can provide everything (within normal bounds) that you are looking for, And, I look forward to seeing you about.
L Katy 😘