My significant other told me that he was going through hormone therapy before he met me and stopped after 3 months he met me and eight and a half years later he told me I was fine with what he had gone through but he wanted to change a few things because he wasn't happy with himself I was angry, confused, sad and just really emotional. I didn't want him to change who he is and he didn't want to be who he is or leave me so we came to the agreement of him cross dressing and we couldn't be happier. He is on this board too. He is not male or female he is genderfluid now. My only problem now? He won't stop talking about it but you know what I don't care because I love him even more now and he is happy. It is still sinking in but I am getting there with it.