Hi cascado,
Best advice would be to read through the Bottom Surgery subforum here. There is a lot of general information about specific procedures, experiences with surgeons, and people's full experiences with phalloplasty. There are also a few Facebook groups where people regularly share their experiences that I would recommend.
I would say - do some research here and elsewhere online and try to decide what exact procedures you're most interested in pursuing. There's so much information out there that it can be overwhelming to go into it with no ideas. You may also find that in figuring out what exactly you want, you'll cross off a lot of non-options.