I should perform an experiment. There is this movie theater a few blocks from my apartment. There is a vey nice restaurant on the first floor. There is a very nice bar next to the theater on the second floor that I go to once in a while. Its got wifi. I need to put on one of my best dresses and go to the bar on a Friday or Saturday night and sit at the bar with my computer and see if I can get a drink and or a dinner and or a movie or all three. Then in case a incredibly handsome guy or incredibly beautiful woman ( also both incredibly wealthy) wants to spend some quality time with me there is a hotel right across the street from the building that has the theater and bar. I can then scientifically determine if its the forward thing and just being nice or my feminine appeal.