What to do?

[Larisa]

Someone I told that Im a girl inside awhile back seems angry or atleast Im guessing. I told her I dont plan on transitioning as she assumed I would. I kind of go back and forth on what Im gonna do. Since I let her know Im not transitioning, she has like not responded to me at all. I dont know what to think. It's not like Ive done nothing. Ive been myself more in someways but I feel like shes not responding at all because I wont just go become the girl I am as she seems to think I should or something. Im more confused what shes thinking and trying to figure it out.

[CatherineVeraGat]

Is she a person that you are married to/dating or is she a co-worker? When do you bump into her during the week? I wouldn't worry about it that much, because it is none of her business to know exactly when you are/want to transition until you are fully comfortable telling people about what you are doing. And if you already tell some people about what you are doing, it still not their business to know if you are transitioning. Because even if you do want to transition, it won't effect that person's life in any way, shape or form, it's your life that you are living not their live.

I wouldn't let that person effect my decision of what you are going to do. And even if she won't respond to you, it's her problem, not accepting the person who you actually are.


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[Larisa]

Shes a friend or atleast till recently it seems. Ya I dont think she accepts me for me and just thinks oh your a girl, well you should transition attitude. It's almost offensive like this is personal for me and this isnt about you or what you want but than Im just guessing what shes thinking.

I thought she was accepting as she said at first but ya it dont seem that way. I dont think I owe her an explanation of where Im at and all. My life, not hers and she has no idea what I go through and how things are for me and I was like hey here is someone I think gets it. If she had to live in my world for awhile, well maybe she would get it cause it's not easy for me. She acted like transition is the easiest thing to do when she assumed I had started. I was like um no.