I would rather be fabulous than pass

[Alexi90]

Very interesting subject, I think for some trans girls they get so caught up in achieving these insane ideals of beauty like every CIS girl or to be Passable you need to look like a Supermodel. I think on a certain level you need to accept that you're different, you're unique I think we are doing something really courageous so outside the box it would be silly to try leave the box of assigned sex to jump into the box of trying to be passable.

I think the good question to ask is what do I need not to be happy what I want cause the answer will differ greatly.
It's tough and it's a daily struggle but it's always good to remember that.

[Serenation]

I guess the real question is

[Stella Sophia]

Sometimes I really wish I could just be a pretty trans girl. Why do I have to feel so compelled to be passable all the time? I wish society loved us trans women the same way they loved cis women, that way I could just be beautiful as myself and not exhaust myself trying to just fit in and be normal. When I do everything perfect, even then I am not 100% passable or guaranteed to even be seen as a woman.

I feel like I am a monster truck trying to pass as a sports car, why cant I just be beautiful as the monster truck I am and have the world agree with me? 

[Ⓥ]

I feel like I am a monster truck trying to pass as a sports car, why cant I just be beautiful as the monster truck I am and have the world agree with me? 

I think you are pretty!  (This is how a lot of cis girls feel too, though)

[Stella Sophia]

Thanks hon.

[Zoetrope]

Id rather play 'pass the parcel' than 'do I pass' ...