things to try

[preston j sannicolas]

so i was wondering what things i could try to define my gender without being caught by my family'

just some things that would help clear up that part of me that's saying just leave it alone

[Laura_7]

Well you might try some changes to hair and clothing style...
womens trousers and sweaters for example...
second hand stores could be a good source...
and see how it makes you feel...

[preston j sannicolas]

sadly i don't have a car lol

[Laura_7]

well you might order on ebay...
or use a bus to go to town...
or look at local papers, often there is a weekly or monthly market for clothing...

[LizK]

let you hair grow?
wear some jewellery,
look after your nails,
moisturise and look after your skin.
be yourself!

[preston j sannicolas]

ok im thinking of painting my toes to see what i think because i can wear socks out side of my room

[preston j sannicolas]

whats the best way to do that lol never painted my nails

[Dena]

Very carefully, the solvent in the polish is pretty strong and you need to make sure the other won't smell it. People often put tissue or cotton between their toes so the polish isn't marked while it drys. You might also want a bottle of remover should you need to swim or go somewhere that socks would't be worn. Also it would be best to do it over news paper so if you spill, nothing gets stained.

[preston j sannicolas]

thank you

[Stevie]

 You can also work on your posture.

[preston j sannicolas]

hmm i didn't think of that so what like straighten my back or something

sorry not the most familiar with good posture

[Stevie]

Sit up straight don't slouch, keep your head up and point toes forward  while walking. Posture is different between female and males. There are videos and websites  devoted to it as well.
http://www.elegantwoman.org/How-to-develop-poise.html

[preston j sannicolas]

thank you i will try to do those things while siting and walking