Quote from: Ashey on October 14, 2015, 09:22:09 PM
I haven't been tested since it's expensive but for a while I've suspected I might have an intersex condition. I recently looked at the symptoms of KS and it seems very likely that I have it...
-Clumsier and slower in developing motor skills, coordination, speed, and muscle strength (My mom confirmed I took longer to walk and sit-up than normal, and I was bad at sports growing up)
-Smaller testes (Had an undescended testicle which had to be corrected twice and was underdeveloped, but my testosterone levels were normal before I transitioned)
-Less facial hair and body hair (Hardly any back, chest, or belly hair, and my facial hair was sparse and very patchy)
-Narrower shoulders and wider hips (Shoulders are a bit narrow but hips are definitely much wider than normal)
-Decreased sexual interest (Maybe not interest but I always had erectile dysfunction and didn't have the same drive or instincts that men have)
-Lower energy (yuuup)
-Delay in learning to talk (Another thing my mom confirmed for me)
-Auditory processing issues (It's why I hate phones...)
-Reading difficulties (Not in comprehension but retention and reading speed)
-More docile personality (Yes, was never very aggressive and used to be rather quiet)
-Abnormal body proportions (Instead of long legs and a short torso, I have the opposite)
...... but is there anything else that would be unique to KS to watch out for?
Hi Ashey,
I suspected I might have Klinefelter's syndrome for quite a while. I have a list of physical and developmental symptoms similar to yours. A year and a half ago, I joined a web forum for people with or inquiring about Klinefelter's/XXY. There are is a sub-forum for intersex people. It's definitely worth exploring.
http://www.xxytalk.com/fusionbb/index.php?
This is how I expressed my thoughts in a private message to another forum member:
"I have a pear-shaped physique. I have very little body hair. I was very uncoordinated when i was a kid, failed at every sport I was forced to try. I had poor upper body strength compared to other boys, and, even as an adult, when I was trying my hardest to fit into the gay male world here in New York City and going to gyms, I failed to develop more upper body strength and muscle. I related to what I read about atonia/poor muscle tone. I tried running on occasion and discovered that I had pretty bad endurance too. I was a very passive, introverted, unaggressive, uncompetitive, quiet, shy boy who had poor abilities to play with other boys. I had a weird, terrifying identification with hermaphrodites, eunuchs and freaks when i read about them in books about weird people I was obsessed with reading around the time I was hitting puberty. When I was in high school and college, I felt very immature compared to other guys-- some had a vitality and unconscious sensuality about them that made me feel like a neutered piece of **** in comparison. Also, as time goes on, I identify more and more as being an invisibly androgynous person, and not fully male or masculine but not female either, kind of emotionally intersexed without being perceived as "femme" in the old school gay world. I could go on and on."
I was encouraged to get tested by some forum members. I got a couple of testosterone tests with ambiguous results (once below the bottom of the "normal range" and once a little above it), and also a karyotype—I was 46XY, with no detectable mosaics. I have American-style health insurance—the full cost for my karyotype would have been $840 US, but with my insurance, my cost was c. $150 US, which I thought was worth it, much less than the outlandish cost I had originally expected.
I'm following up on investigating my little mystery—I posted about it here a few days ago in my introduction.
There was one important consensus reached by the sages on the xxytalk forum about what they thought was the tell-tale, yes/no sign of whether a person has KS/47XXY/47XXY mosaic or not—
small, firm testicles.
They were agreeing that if you don't have small, firm testicles, then you almost certainly are not KS/47XXY/47XXY mosaic. Discussion of this is easy to find on that forum.
This was my source of doubt before getting tested—I do not have small, firm testicles. Lo and behold, my karyotype confirmed that I do not have Klinefelter's, unless there is a very, very tiny percentage of cells in my body which are 47XXY—this would require a more extensive karyotype that examine a much larger number of cells at more expense.
Is the small, firm testicles factor definitive? Maybe not—it looks like it's anecdotal. There are always exceptions, and I thought I might be one of them. However, there are some very smart, medically knowledgable people on that forum just like over here, and this was their conclusion.