Quote from: nekomidnight on September 23, 2015, 02:22:49 PM
What is the best way to tell my parents and friends that I am transgender?
Mom, Dad, I've got something important to tell you. (Then wait until you have their complete attention.) You might have heard that there are people called transgender, whose brains need them to be a different gender than their bodies. I need to tell you that I'm one of those people.
Let them digest at this point. Allow them to ask questions, freak out, throw a fit, or be sad. Expect the worst and the best, because you can't know how people will react. Answer their questions honestly and without shame - you have nothing to be ashamed of. Be proud to be yourself. If they react negatively, realize that it's not a reflection on you, just the circumstance of hearing something they're not ready face.
When they're ready to listen again, say "I'd like to see a gender therapist." If they object, simply keep saying it. "Well, I'd still like to see a gender therapist." You may have to do some of the legwork of finding one in your area.
Make sure you post when you need help. A whole lot of people here have been through what you're going through. You are not alone.