My catchphrase of the moment is "being differently-different sucks!". People like to think in clear binaries/dualities/partisanships... it's a human thing. We form tribes/teams/troupes/groups/cults/cliques/cicles like nobody's business. All of these things are deeply predicated on our personal sense of who we are and what is "Normal".
And then along comes us.
![Tongue :P](https://www.susans.org/Smileys/susans/tongue.gif)
Remember the old rallying cry of "But it's not
normal!" Yeah, like normality is a good thing? It's normal that people die, that people fight, that people suffer. Norm-ocracy is stupid.
Nobody likes fence-straddlers. Bi-racial, bi-sexual, bi-gendered, non-binary, otherly-sexual... geeze, it's too complex to build a 10-second soundbite around! We can't even get people just to realise that issues are more complex than Republicrats vs Demoplicans. From the media's perspective, it's better stick to the clearly identifiable teams you can create a narrative around and establish empathy. Even if they want to help, it's beyond their power to communicate it in an effective manner.