hello

[desiluv]

I am not transgender, but here...well not to troll. I am an admirer, but not here to troll or harass people. I have been trans-attracted for a while (over 10 years), and much of this has been via porn/escorts in honesty. However, i've been considering lately dating a TS, since any attraction has to be more than just physical imho. I guess i'm here just to see how TSs tick. Yes, everybody in every group is different, naturally, but of course there would be some common threads/experiences.

I hope I am welcome here, as a cisgendered male, but if not I'd understand. 

[Laura_7]

Well treat people as people.... not as objects...

transgender people relive something like a second puberty, which might help make them attractive...
remember its all people with a personality and needs and cravings like everyone else...

[V M]

Hi Desi 

Welcome to Susan's    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Just keep in mind that this a support site and not a dating site

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V M

[Dena]

Welcome to Susan's Place. You have passed the first test of honesty. People come here for many different reason and I have posted with over half a dozen who weren't transsexual, non binary or a SO. Many people on this site are involved in loving relationships with CIS people and wanting to understand us in order to become closer to us is admirable. The disappointing news I have for you is we are just ordinary people with a problem few people have. We were born the way we were and go through great trouble and expense to fix a birth defect. Self exploration helps use become well adjusted people and after surgery we go on to live pretty normal lives. I am 33 years post surgical and the life I have lived is not that much different that the lives lived by others. Feel to ask what ever question you have and we should be able to answer them.

[Rachel]

Welcome to Susan's,

you are welcome here. As stated earlier we are just people. Most are here because we share common issues and help and support each other.