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Started by Emileeeee, September 24, 2015, 10:16:58 PM

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Emileeeee

A few months ago, I came out to pretty much everybody I know. My friends continue to be accepting without question. My family was initially accepting, then started getting weird. I felt like they would come around, but it doesn't look like that's going to happen. I have a couple hundred family members and now 5 are still talking to me 3 months later.
I've retained 1 parent, 1 aunt, and 3 cousins.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not depressed about it. I do end up in tears sometimes when I think about my siblings and other parent, but it's no longer anger. It's disappointment. Still, I am much happier than I was before. Not only do I accept myself fully now, but the people in my family that were the biggest mood killers, walked out of my life. Only the positive ones remain. So while it's disappointing to lose so many, I've narrowed my circle down to only those that accept me for me and that's a great feeling.
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warlockmaker

Like you I came out a few months ago to the remaining family members and also to all my close friends and business associates, some 100 plus people. Like you the support was wonderful. Recently, as my surgery date nears certain really family members started getting wierd and I was initially quite upset and somewhat indignant and disappointed. My SO, after 2 years of support, even asked me not to visit our Villa as a female.... the old me would not tolerate this and would be terribly agressive. But today, in reflection I realized I had my whole life to accept my situation and for them its been a few months and my SO needed time. The heartening news is that my SO is gradually coming around again. Be patient give it time and we know there will be those who can never accept but we must live ouir life true to ourselves.
When we first start our journey the perception and moral values all dramatically change in wonderment. As we evolve further it all becomes normal again but the journey has changed us forever.

SRS January 21st,  2558 (Buddhist calander), 2015
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