Quote from: jennyfk on October 13, 2015, 05:21:15 AM
Eep! Great thread very interested to hear the responses as I have all this to "look forward" to.
My gut tells me to wimp out and use whatsapp and other social media rather than be face to face.
My gf told me to Skype my mom in a dress but she's obviously cray cray!
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Jennifer
Every situation is unique pending known parameters of a relationship & personalities.
I told my Mom in person in my home where I had access to photos &/or references. It went over very well, she responded with "I love you no matter what". While that sounds great, do not expect their language to change for you 100%. There will still be times when wrong pro nouns or improper requests will come along. One example I can cite is "will you be a pallbearer for your uncle?" Had not legally changed my name, so in her mind that was fair game.
She would go from saying something like look at those veins or muscles in your arms when helping her around her home to quietly passing off a make up related xmas gift. My point is, it is confusing for them too & have found patience to be key. Would have to think the quicker one can expedite transition(if that is the goal) is desirable with regard to others perception.
Wish you the best & good luck.
