Hi Taylor,
There are several NZ women on the site. I'm sure they will get back to you. From contacts I have NZ is very accepting, more so in the cities. Much the same as Oz, where I am. Employment is an issue, but to be honest I think that is the economy more than anything.
Medical service, I think the only SRS surgeon in NZ has retired, so we are stuck with overseas surgeons. Not sure how that plays out with insurance.
Cindy