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Started by Maddy_Aya_W., October 08, 2015, 08:55:55 PM

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Maddy_Aya_W.

For all the people who are supportive, or just don't care. There are always a couple who feel they need to be hurtful, or unkind in some way. Unfortunately for us this is a fact that we have no power over. Something we can do, is change the way we react to those people. Today, I went to a bird sanctuary, and on my way there I overheard two men laughing at me. I just shook it off, because I know there isn't really much I could do. The thing we have to keep in mind about people like this, is that there is something wrong in their life that makes them feel they have to joke at other people's expense. It's truly sad, when you think about. That is because, you realize that they are in a similar situation to the one you were in before you began being you. They probably don't talk about whatever their problem is, and let it grow inside them, causing them to feel that something is wrong with themselves. So they make fun, in order to lessen the burden they carry. There is nothing wrong with any of us, we're all beautiful people, who are willing to do whatever it takes to be happy, and comfortable in life. The same can not be said for them. I hope one day, they can come to terms with themselves, but I'm not going to waste my energy getting worked up over what people say, or do.

Just had to get that off my chest.

~Maddy
BeIng a woman is not my fetish, it is my life.
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taylor_h

good attitude :)

exposure to that kind of thing can also make us stronger

Taylor
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Sandy74

I have found out that people hate because that is all they know how to do , they learn that behavior from other people. Plus I think they have a fear of anyone that is different than them and when they see someone that is different all they know how to do is snicker and poke fun at it because they do not understand it. Then if another person is with them they just feel even better about themselves when they make fun of those people that are different.

I have not gone out in public yet dressed or even as a woman and not sure how I will respond by people that act like pricks towards us overall. I guess I will cross that bridge when I get there and even if I were with friends that had no clue that I am a Transgender Woman and saw someone that was that way in public I would not be rude or act childish and if they did I would confront them and say that is uncalled for and that everyone is different and if they have a problem with me after that oh well.

Then I would go up to that Transgender lady or man and ask if they wanted to be friends instead lol
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Maddy_Aya_W.

We definitely need to stick up for each other, or anyone who is being oppressed for that matter.  I only started leaving my house dressed as of late July, early August, somewhere around there. Though I don't go everywhere dressed, The frequency with which I've been going out dressed has been steadily increasing. The first time is definitely the hardest, but it gets easier the more you do it. Now I go to all my counseling appointments dressed, so I get out at least once a week. Just gotta take it one step at a time, and you're the only one who can decide which pace is suitable for you.
BeIng a woman is not my fetish, it is my life.
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