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Not seeing my letter and slight ranting

Started by piralan, October 14, 2015, 05:28:36 PM

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piralan

I recently put a coming out letter in my mom's purse and its been three days since then. I have yet to hear anything about it from her. Its like seriously making me anxious and slightly annoyed.

Also, I pretty much fell in love with one of my best friends. She's totally fine with me being trans since one of our other friends is too, but she's practically obsessed with this guy she talks to online. And, this guy we hang out with is always close to her and always touching her and I'm trying so hard not to hate him but I just can't stand it anymore. It's so annoying.

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Laura_7

Well you might ask her...
like for example saying you put a letter in her bag...
if she'd like to talk about it...
if she has not found it yet she might read it through and you might talk about it the next day...

Well if you like your friend you might make a move...
you could invite her to dinner or a movie... and tell her...

if she doesn't reciprocate you might stay friends...


venting helps...

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piralan

Thank you. I've been trying to see if the letter was even still in her purse but I never got a time to actually check. And I'm hoping I'll have enough courage tomorrow or Friday to talk to my friend about it.  I just really fear it'll go badly.  And it's like the first time I've really liked someone so  I have almost no clue what to do

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Laura_7

Quote from: piralan on October 14, 2015, 07:00:59 PM
Thank you. I've been trying to see if the letter was even still in her purse but I never got a time to actually check. And I'm hoping I'll have enough courage tomorrow or Friday to talk to my friend about it.  I just really fear it'll go badly.  And it's like the first time I've really liked someone so  I have almost no clue what to do

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Well you might simply tell them you like them... and maybe you want to take it slow, and see where it takes you...
so they might get used to the idea...

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SilverWing

The thing about letters is, you'll be stuck with anticipation until she brings it up. I dumped my letter on the couch before I went to work (while my mom was upstairs), and I was absolutely frozen with fear when IIgot off. I felt like I was going to have a panic attack, and had to buy one of those NeuroBliss" drinks to calm myslef down. Turns out though, the anticipation is worse than what actually happens. (Or at least it was in my case.) Just try to relax. Chances are it's not going to be as bad as you think.
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