I feel very fortunate to have been involved with the LGBTQ community all my long adult life. I have known and worked with transgender people and some of the girls i met here are among my very best friends and have saved me a number of times. We have so much in common and especially that need to talk about our transition stuff more than our SOs might like to hear. Hey they deserve a break.

The trans women I first met were, unfortunately for my understanding, rigidly and stereotypically, into the binary while I was dismissed as just a wana be dabbler. They also seemed like very needy, obsessive girls that could suck the oxygen from any gathering. I couldn't be one of them, could I? Yup, I am one of those needy and obsessive girls!
It has opened my eyes to know other transgender stories and narratives that don't fit the standard. I meet plenty of gay and straight men that like to cross dress too. I also feel fortunate to know quite a few trans men that also contribute so much to understanding perspectives. I will never forget the first big public LGBT meeting in the City of Minneapolis, about 1975. A pretty dark haired person with a beard was sporting a darling red dress! How brave!
The last time I was at a big city Q Ctr trans meeting the group featured a woman who owned her own company and was traveling to Thailand for "the works," a girl who was voted homecoming queen, a homeless person who turned tricks and another person who was there with her case worker as chaperone. We are so very diverse within our community even!
What a joy to get to know YOU!