My first time

[fionainsilk]

Hi all

I'm new its my first post and I wanted to say hello, I'm looking forward to chatting with yyou all and learning as I go. 

I've been dressing since I was very young but unfortunately am still in the closest, I'm married and I don't think she has ay idea

I would love to meet another girl with the same mind as me

Fiona xx

[Laura_7]

Hello and welcome 

here are a few resources that could help you:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,194986.msg1737439.html#msg1737439

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,197523.msg1756901.html#msg1756901

You might look for a good counselor... there are also online counselors...
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,187135.0.html

I'd say keep asking questions...
and there is also a chat on susans...


And there is a category for significant others... you might read there... know you are not alone, there are many in similar situations...


*hugs*

[TG CLare]

Dear Fiona;

Welcome to Susan's Place.

I am sure there are many people on here who are just like you and in the same situation.

You'll find a number of resources here to help you along and to help you make the choice that is right for you and your life.

Best wishes,
Clare.

[Dena]

Welcome to Susan's Place. There are many people in different life styles. You didn't state what you feel but you could be cross dresser, gender fluid, gender queer, transsexual and there are others as well. All are welcome here and pretty much everybody has areas they can post in their own area of interest. You are also welcome in other areas as well if you have something to contribute. An example is I make post in the FTM sections even though I am MTF. Let us know if there is anything we can help you with.

We issue to all new members the following links so you will best be able to use the web site.

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[V M]

Hi Fiona 

Welcome to Susan's    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M

[gennee]

A hearty welcome to Susan's, Fiona.

[Catherine Sarah]

Hi Fiona,

A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.

There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.

Tread lightly with your relationship, Fiona. Women are not silly. Their intuitiveness can often reveal more than you'll ever know. The main thing you need to consider is trust. In any relationship, trust is the glue that keeps it together. Once trust is broken, it's extremely hard to get it back again. Open honesty gives trust a place to cling on to.

Just consider the repercussions if your partner found you had found "another girl with the same mind as you" What do you think that would do?  Finding a good gender therapist may be a better propersition. At least it would send the right message to your partner.

Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.

Lotsa huggs
Catherine