Hi Kate,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
Yep. It does get easier, only the first 100 years are the worse.

. I think you're on the right path. The more open and honest you are with yourself the more authentic you become. That's when the fun really starts.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine