Hi Bernadette,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
It can be a bit scary at first, however the sooner you get to know this real you, the easier it becomes. There may be a few local organisations near you that can ease you into an accepting community. Try your local community health services.
It's a well know adage, that those that really care about you, don't bother how you present and those that bother, don't care.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Speak to you once I'm out of the hairdresser
Lotsa huggs
Catherine