I think I'm going to have to. She made me promise to call her after my appointment at the gender clinic next week to tell her what they said, and I really, really don't think that it's going to be a case "it's a huge mistake, I not trans, my bad, where's the nearest dress shop?" Which is clearly what she's hoping. And when it isn't, she's going to go off the deep end again. And I really really don't need this right now. Normally, I know she says stuff without thinking about it, and it isn't intentional if it's hurtful, but last night - that was something else. That was meant to undermine me, and (even worse) my relationship. I'm not having it. I have enough anxieties about being with someone as it is, without comments from the peanut gallery.
