Wow, some people are exceptionally rude. Ive had a guy push me over in the checkout line at the grocery store before "looking for a pack of gum" (even though there were many aisles without people in them). He tried to talk to me and said, "Is it ma'am or sir?" UH, IT'S CHOOSE ANOTHER LANE, ->-bleeped-<-. It seemed like he wanted to interact with me to find out my gender and report back to his woman waiting at the end.
I usually end up in the same boat with my voice. People usually gender me as male when they look at me, and then try to correct themselves when I start talking. I confused the heck out of an older man before. He kept calling me sir, then slipped up and said ma'am, and was like, "Are you a boy or a girl? You look like a guy but you have a girl's vojce" (he did it in the most polite way possible for saying such a rude thing, so I just took it as a compliment on mylooks and went wigh it).
My voice is my biggest issue I have with myself. I like to talk but constantly hold back from saying things a lot of times so I dont have to hear my voice...
Sorry my writing is a horrid mess. My tablet doesn't do the keyboard thing very well.
