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I will be G-rated.
You post that you are pre-op. Well then, your current results will be pre-op results, not post-op results.
Now is when it becomes important to study medical science and anatomy and physiology so that you comprehend comparative anatomy. Then you can begin making your informed choice of surgery. GCS / SRS surgeons have their own philosophy and may or may not produce results desirable to you.
Post-op is when you can explore pleasing post-op options. If you really want and need to progress to surgery, then there is nothing of the surgery to be nervous about. The correct surgeon according to your needs and philosophy will produce favourable results for you; this is exciting anticipation.
Your surgeon and team will lead you through your grand tour; take time post-op to explore your new self so that you come to your comfort level with your new equipment. Remember, females grow up as girls, mature through puberty, and develop womanhood through the course of a lifetime. You are seeking to accomplish this same path in a matter of a few short years.
Once you are comfortable with your new anatomy, then you can begin bringing a partner to you. Of course, if you have a current partner who will be staying with you, then they can work with you as you explore your new anatomy.
Sorry, my personal pre-op circumstances provided no comparison of male versus female; someone else will need to post their comparative experiences.
My best organ really is between my ears. I can and do and experience many forms of female excitement with different parts of my anatomy and I am quite satisfied with various directed and over-all body experiences.
Yes, female is a beautifully grand enjoyment!
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